There’s very little competition for these bachelors—and you can have your pick, if you are willing to make the first move.” “Many women are looking for a ‘good’ partner but have not defined what good looks like,” Drenner explains.
“The more clearly ‘good’ is defined, the sooner your will be able to eliminate those that don’t fit the criteria.” , author and relationship expert.
Men who have waited to have kids or who had kids with their first wife but perhaps not as many as they would have liked, are looking for a fertile woman.
You could be "Fertile Myrtle" and they might not know it simply because you're over 35 and they didn't bother to ask because you didn't fit the criteria.
“For instance, if you don’t want to date someone who has kids, you’ll save yourself loads of time by simply saying no to anyone who wants to date you and who already has a brood. Forget judgment—just be true to you and you’ll be successful at dating.” And if you’re dabbling in online dating, make sure you know the 30 Worst Phrases to Use on Your Profile. “There are many potential partners out there that are diamonds in the rough.
It’s not always easy, but think outside the box.” And for more heartfelt advice, know the 40 Secrets of Couples Who’ve Been Married 40 Years.
Just accept yourself and be okay with who you are now.(Then again, just because a guy wants to date a younger girl, doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to date him!