Determining whether or not one of your suitors fits the bill can be a difficult task; some jerks are hard to weed out. Using these easy identifiers, you can determine whether your partner is a jerk—or a gem. The obvious assholes want everyone to know that they can get away with anything, even if that isn’t true.
The subtle assholes will do what they always do, thinking that no one is going to call them out.
They will blame you for the deterioration of your “relationship,” and will even go so far as to rub it in your face.The way an asshole approaches sex, however, is based on the “me, me, me” concept.Even if you ask him to do something more, he’ll rarely stick to it, and will quickly revert to his selfish bedroom habits. Getting to know an asshole is pretty easy; he will constantly talk about himself, and rarely let you get a word in edgewise.No one should have to put up with that—which is why when a guy starts that sentence, you should politely, but emphatically excuse yourself from his life. He either finishes too soon, doesn’t engage in foreplay, or lets you do all the hard work…every time.
When a guy is inept in bed, there’s still a chance that he could learn something if you work together.
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